Hey, man, I definitely have been there! Whenever I run into streaks like this, I take some time off to evaluate my play, run the numbers, and then return with the confidence of the math in my back pocket.
I've been playing for about 15 years now, been a quiet observer on here for about ten years and not really posting anything. I really want to keep a low profile.
I'm not the expert that a lot of folks around here are, but that 1:40 spread and a top bet of 2 x 100 with a 10K bankroll seems a little bit aggressive. Both in terms of the bank required to sustain it, but definitely in terms of longevity. How the hell you've played for a month with a 1:40 spread without being booted is beyond me.
For myself, the most aggressive I like to get is a bankroll that is 100 times my max bet -- which in your scenario would mean a bank of $20,000. Spreading to two hands in high counts reduces the variance, so when I spread to two, I allow myself to be 2 x 70% of whatever my bank says my top bet should be. In your scenario, that would mean 2 x 70% of $100, or a max bet of 2 x 70 for a $10,000 bank. For a 2 x 100 bet, I would want a minimum of a $15,000 bank. So if after a loss of $5,000 you're still playing 2 x 100, you need to know that you're operating with less than 1/3 of the bankroll required to keep your RoR in a tolerable range.
Let's take a moment to ROUGHLY guesstimate your standard deviations here.
I'm just VERY much ballparking the numbers here, but even if I'm off by 20%, the math might comfort you!
I'm going to guess your average bet size is about $40 -- which is hard for me to really know with a 1:40 spread. This is a GUESS. I'm guessing what it's likely to be based on the 2 x 100 max bet and the $5 minimum. I'm going to assume you played 5 hours a day, 4 days a week, 4 weeks -- so a total of 80 hours. If you're at a fast game without many people at the table, I bet you've averaged 100 hands/hour, so that means you've played 8,000 hands during this month.
My napkin-back math tells me that in this scenario, I can expect 1SD to be about $3900 +/-
As a shorthand for myself, my expected value is about 30% of my max bet per hour. If your max bet is 200, your rough expected value should be about $60/hour. Your expected value in the scenario I'm playing with, then, is +$4800.
If your expected value is $4800
1SD = 900 to 8700
2SD = (3000) to 12,600
3SD = (6900) to 16,500
If my numbers are even close -- a loss of $5,000 is statistically on the "unlikely" end of things, but definitely within the realm of probability just outside of -2SD.
Now, here's the rub. Let's calculate this backwards. Your loss of $5,000 is statistically possible within -3SD as long as your average bet is MORE than about $33. If your average bet is less than $33, then the math doesn't work out and your loss of $5,000 is outside of what the math expects.
If this is the case, there's a problem with your play or the game that you've chosen and you need to check it out!
Good luck out there man, blackjack can be a fickle mistress!