That's cool
Therefore, doubling the soft 19 will only add some additional concern and attention. But also standing and staying in the game while holding a stiff after doubling the soft 19 could mean that I'm either a crazy player or a pro.
My input was just a guess on the reaction of the pit. I'm sure we all have our guesses about what would happen. I think we both know the ploppy play -- keep the stiff and stand on the soft 19. Anything different will attract attention. I do think you made the proper play under the circumstances.
That being said, I tend to believe that keeping the stiff while doubling the soft 19 would look more natural, as you'd look like you were playing a hunch that the dealer would bust. If you were worried about heat, skipping the double-down would be a consideration, as that was the attention-getting play. As for the stiff, since you didn't know the index for keeping it, you really would have been playing a hunch. That's why I think you made the right play.
I do have one idea. I like to carry a basic strategy card for SD DOA DAS (printed from blackjackinfo.com). That way, I can justify many oddball plays like that one (You could make the double and then take out the card to "verify" that it was the right play. Then lament that the double was "proper" against a 6 but not a 5). Rarely take it out, claiming you don't wish to slow down the game. If they try to tell you your card is somehow incorrect, act like the version they have is the "casino version", and is designed to give the casino the edge.