is worse than skilled player abuse anytime. In clarifying, I often wonder how many great counters have gotten washed completely out of the business because of too much consecutive negative variance resulting in spousal disagreements. I assume it happens a lot. I can visualize a spouse that just can�t handle it and just doesn�t want to hear any more explanation about negative swings, variance is just what happens, it happens to the best in the world, it�s part of the long run etc. etc.. Many of us who are still playing have to battle the family�s perception of us, such as: spends too much time at it for the returns, may be a compulsive gambler, could make more money at a traditional business for the same amount of effort and investment with a lot less risk etc. etc..
Let�s face it. This business can be a strain on a relationship. How do we get the spouse up to speed and understand the possibilities and attainability of the rewards of being an A P? How do we show them just how close we are to making it happen?
I don�t have this problem yet, though I can see where it will most likely happen in the not to distant future. Nobody in my family really understands how good of a player I really am and just how close I am at becoming great with the returns to show for it.
Any words of wisdom from the veterans in this area is appreciated.
Stealth Bomber
PS Has anyone ever had their spouse watching them during a session of play at the BJ table: Your on a losing streak, your stack keeps dwindling and the drunk ploppy on the other side of the table has a truck load of green and black and is essentially showing your spouse how they are the great one while you just suck?