Alternative views
Since you have a good day job, one alternative is just to view your BJ BR as a sort of retirement fund. Continue to make contributions as you can, while you also re-invest all of your winnings. You can gradually increase your playing stakes as your BR increases. Your skill will also increase at the same time. You can cash it out when your playing days are over.
You may also want to decide ahead of time on a BR level where you will re-size your bet levels and recalculate ROR. Alot of players resize if they double their BR, or it drops in half, for example.
Also, assuming that you don't "need" your BR money for living, given your day job, you could just go for maximum BR growth, which means betting at full Kelly, and constantly re-sizing your bets. Realistically, you might bet 2/3 or 3/4 Kelly and only re-size before each BJ trip. In theory, it's impossible to go "broke" using a pure Kelly betting scheme, since you are constantly resizing your bets.
Lastly, you also need to consider the psychological aspect of your bet amounts. Keep in mind that it is possible to lose 8 1/2 times the amount that you put in the betting circle. Extremely unlikely, but definitely possible. This means that if you have a max bet of say $100, you need to be mentally prepared to lose $850 on ONE hand. The last thing you want is to be in a situation where you cannot bring yourself to double that 3rd or 4th split hand that is sitting in front of you.
Buy BJA 3 and read it. Then read it again every few months as you gain experience.