"Welcome to the wonderful world of variance
It's easy to blame your losses on cheating, but most likely it's due to variance (or your bad play).
Playing at several Las Vegas and Laughlin casinos, I lost money for 3 years. The last year of those 3 years, I lost on 10 consecutive trips. "
"...More likely, either she [Jane Doe] is cheating somehow or someone is exaggerating. Is this a handhell game? I would love to take you up and witness this dealer, but I don't think I have the expertise to detect cheating. "
Cheaters love headstrong gamblers. It seems that hardheads are the best losers because they don't think they're cheated. They think that bad hands of cards are just bad luck/variance. Commonsense and wisdom are the best defenses against cheaters. For example, Dealer Jane Doe has been too lucky consistently over years. I've watched her like a hawk, but I can not tell if she cheats or not. However, recently a retired Doctor sez she cheats. The Doctor sez she "stacks" aces as she collects cards from the felt. Following the Doctor's tip, I paid extra attention at her whenever aces are dropped on the felt. Holy mackerel! The Doctor is right! Jane Doe stacks aces. The Doctor explained that stacking aces together would decrease a player's chance to receive a pair of aces. Well, that's only one unkosher thing the dealer has been doing. God only knows what else she has been playing tricks with cards against gamblers.