Advice for Stealth
Nobody is "encouraging him to continue being a hopeless gambler." He acknowledged he didn't count. Everybody except you provided good information for what Ray asked. Maybe he doesn't want to learn, maybe he doesn't have the time to put into it right now, or whatever reason. It doesn't matter. If you're not going to provide the information requested, then it's best to just not post anything.
Some people don't think of blackjack the way we do. Nothing wrong with that if they're aware of the differences and make this decision themselves. Since the guy is posting at BJ21.com, it's obvious he's aware this is an advantage site and chooses to not take advantage.
Of course, the above is just my opinion.